Distance might make the heart grow fonder...but I CAN'T TAKE IT!!!

As many of your know, my dearest Leslie is away from me. She is enjoying Maryland and having the time of her life learning about Diabetes and education people about how to live with it. She is selling more popcorn on the boardwalk than I will eat in my whole life, and she just loves it. Well...almost loves it. How can you really truly love life when someone as awesome as myself is 2000 miles away?

After much deliberation (nice word, huh?) and thought, I have decided to journey home early. I will more than likely be traveling home on Monday July 20th, exactly two weeks before originally planned. Luckily, both my jobs are very flexible and one of them will even allow me to work from MD.

This has been in my mind for a few weeks now. When we originally bought the tickets, I was staying behind because work required me to do so, however, I quit Brick Oven, and my employers are much more flexible than Brick Oven.

I am fully looking forward to seeing my amazing wife again, and also our families. 4 weeks apart is long enough for me, and I'm pretty sure that we are not planning this long of an absence again. If this happens again, please shoot me.

Absence Makes the Heart Grow Founder

While I was having an amazing time in Seattle with the Gottula's, Brad sent me a text that expressed how much he loved and missed me. He also said, "I truly believe absence makes the heart grow founder." My initial thought was, awwwe, how cute! But, then I thought, was he just feed up with me and needed a break to appreciate me more? No, that wasn't the case....well, not for him anyway! Just Kidding! Those 4 days that we were apart were were just practice for a long absence from him while I'm in MD this summer.

Coming home from Seattle and realizing that I only had 11 precious days left before the trip really made me thing how much I am going to miss him. Bad breath and all!! I asked him if he was going to cry at the airport, because I know I am! He said he probably would because he's a big softy. :-)

So, I guess the point of this post is to let the family know that it is really going to suck ( I couldn't think of a more appropriate word to describe how I feel) being away from each other. We love one another so much, and Seattle proved that 4 days was no walk in the park. Help us! Encourage us, take care of my Bradley while I'm gone, and hopefully we'll survive!

Memorial Day

My grandfather was a Marine. My Uncle was a Marine. My cousin was a Marine. My other Uncle was in the Army. Even though they are not in the same branch of service each of them had one thing in common. They served during a a conflict in America. My grandfather served during the Cuban Missal Crisis and toward the beginning of the Vietnam war. My Uncle's served during the Vietnam war. And my cousin went to Iraq. Why should I write all of this? Shy should I care? Why should I let another memorial day go by without thanking them?

To answer question number one, I'm writing this because I think it's important to know the military history of my family. I love history, and this is a good thing to know about each one of them. I care because I have great respect for them. I believe 3 out of the 4 freely enlisted. They wanted to serve there country, they respected this land and the beliefs held in it so much that they sacrificed there time, talents, and energy to defend it.

With all the respect and love in my heart, I thank them for all they have done, along with other soldiers, marines, navy man, and those in the air force. You are my hero's! God Bless America!!!

I Love My Family!

We haven't written in almost a month! How Tragic! So, here is another random update. As soon as we got back from Colorado Springs on May 4th it was time to get to work stripping wall paper off of the three rooms in our new apartment. The little office only had the chair railing or bottom half of the wall covered in wall paper, so that too the least amount of time. By the end of day one part of the kitchen wallpaper was off and the office was done. Day two we ran into some problems with the stubborn wallpaper. The stuff would not come off the walls- so my awesome landlady rented a steamer and Brad and I went to town and had all the wallpaper off by day three. Day 4 we cleaned the nasty walls and determined that the kitchen and bathroom were beyond repair, so we decided to do a light texturing on the wall that is similar to orange peel. Thankfully our landlady's son did the texturing. The rest of day 4 was spent rolling the coats of white onto the little office that was originally pink. Day six was if I remember correctly Sunday- so we took a day of rest, a big nap, and then went to go pick up my mom from the airport. It was awesome seeing her on mother's day. She was a huge help to us! By day seven all the painting, except for the cabinets was done! Needless to say we were tired. But, It didn't end there! We then had to worry about packing up all of our stuff and making several little loads in our Kia and a few big ones in a minivan of someone who was helping us in our ward and in a large dodge truck also generously donated for our use by someone in our ward. Brad changed our light fixtures and plugs because he is an awesome electrician. I am so glad that he is handy! Everything we buy he puts together with ease, and it looks amazing. We still don't quite have everything done- but what we do have done looks great. I owe all of that to my mom. She knows how to make things work and make things beautiful. She also works so hard. I'm sure she'll need a long nap this weekend!

Ok, now that you've been updated, I wanted to write a little something to each of my immediate family members telling them how much I appreciate them. You all have been on my mind lately, so here it goes:

Brad- You're amazing! Everyday I fall more and more in love with you. I am grateful for your patience when I get feisty. I am grateful for your skills, intelligence, and knowledge you have of really practical and important skills. When I married you, I pridefully thought that I was a little cooler on the cool scale than you were. Boy, was I wrong! You are way cool and so much better than me in every way! I can't wait to see what our bright future together will hold.

Mom Little- I'm becoming more and more like you everyday. Some times its scary, but most of the time I'm glad it's happening. I'm glad you gave me your love for people, your desire to serve them, and your excitement for home projects. I'm trying to put others before myself like you do, but I know I have a long way to go. I'm grateful to have you as my awesomely cool mom! Thanks for all that you do for us!

Dad Little- You are an inspiration to me. In school whenever they would ask us to name our hero I would always choose you Daddy. You're funny, smart, and way talented. I'm glad I learned how to sing like you, and I'm also grateful that I got a touch of your sense of humor. I can't wait to spend a little time with you this summer, because that is one thing that I wish I had the most with you- time! But, I know you're busy working to provide for the family. Thanks for being an amazing example of someone who's time is so limited, but you still manage to work, play in the band, and do your church calling with loving service. You're great!

Mom Twining- You are amazing! You're smart, funny, and work really well with children. You are full of goodness- I don't think there is one evil or spiteful bone in your body. You always talk highly of others and I've never heard you speak ill of another person. You serve diligently and love greatly! I love you!

Dad Twining- You are super smart. You are a whiz with technology and electrical work! That talent has been used to bless the lives of the Salisbury Ward and countless others- including my dad who I think electrocuted himself when he was doing electrical work at the house in parsonsburg! You have blessed the lives of others by sharing the gospel with them. Thank you for being a good example to me!!!

Angela- Is there anything that you can't do? You're confidence amazes me! You are enthusiastic and have a great love for life. You are an amazing writer! I am also amazed seeing you be a wonderful mom to Wesley. I know that you take your sacred calling of motherhood seriously, and that is shown in the way your research about parenting and interact with your son. I love you too!

Shane- Dude, I don't really know you too well, but I know your funny and super smart! We really heart our Bowing magnet you gave us our first Christmas together! Thank you for being a great dad to Wesley. I love the picture of your two lounging on the bed watching football- it's sooooo cute!

Kurt- You're talented in so many ways- and you know all of your talents! One thing that I admire about you the most is the way you center your life around the gospel. The gospel is seen in your home when you pray and read scriptures with your son, when you speak with patience, and by the pictures you have to decorate your house. You are a great provider for your family!

Melani- You have so many gifts and skills that I admire. You sew, you cook special food for Kyler, your make your own baby wipes. How cool is that. You have the best smile and a great love for the gospel just like your husband. You guys are the perfect couple! You are a great mother who is keeps the spirit in her life as she parents. And that's the most important thing!!!
Who cares if your kid has a Binky til he's 4?!?! Thanks for being so accepting of me and loving when I joined the Twining clan. I know I'm different- but you love me for who I am, and I thank you so much for that!

Love you all!!!! -Leslie

Let's Get It Started

Brad and I recieved a generous gift from our grandparents while they were in town a couple weeks ago. It was a beautiful brand new white, round table with leaf from the "As Is" section at IKEA for $175 because we need a new table when we move into the Cherry Lane apartment. Right now we are mooching off of our really generous landlady by using her spare one.

At IKEA, my favorite place in the world besides the D.C. Temple, Ocean City, and Home, the Chairs that match our table were $50 each and we had to put them together, not only that, they really didn't look like they would be very sturdy and hold up to the pressure from our butts, so we wanted to look on craigslist and ksl.com for some chairs to match.

I was talking to my mom on Monday as I was surfing the Internet, and that is when I found these:

This lady that lives past Salt Lake was selling them for $40 dollars each. They retailed for $245 each. They are solid wood and the cushions are sturdy and comfortable. So, Brad bought all 4 she was selling, she met him in SL, and he took them home in little old Pedro (our car) because there is no way that I would actually fit in there with all the chairs too.

When Brad brought them in I got really excited. I started cleaning them right away. I took my Mr. Clean Magic Eraser (best thing ever) to the pink permanent marker on them and it came right off, including the barbecue sauce, green marker, brown paint, and old peanut butter. Once I was done scrubbing away at them they looked beautiful, except the cushions we a little too stained for my liking.

So, me being the home decorating visionary that I am, decided to sand the chairs down and paint them white to match our table. Also, that old fabric just needed to go, so I went and picked out a very rich, Frenchish, thick canvas fabric from Wal-Mart of all places to re-upholster the cushions. A man that Brad knows from the upholstery shop at BYU is more than likely going to do it for us for a cheap price.

So, yes, when this is all said and done the chairs will probably end up being about $55 dollars each including all fabric and painting materials. But, that's okay with me because I love, love, love beautifying my home and turning something old into something new. Stay tuned for the end result!

Eyebrow Waxing= New ME!

Call me crazy, but I feel I look like a new person when I get my eyebrows waxed. It's pretty painless and inexpensive. I just love it. It makes me feel more feminine and like I just spent a day at the spa.

But on top of all the eyebrow waxing goodness, I actually got my hair dyed, cut, thinned, and styled. How super exciting! The best part about all of this is I got it all for $50 from a top salon in the Riverwoods shopping center. How do I justify such an expense? Well, it's a birthday/ end of the year/ got straight A's this semester present.

I've realized that every time I get my haircut that the stylist always comments on how thick my hair is, like I don't already realize how much of a coarse, curly mess it is. One of my favorite parts is when they thin my hair. I see huge globs of my hair being ripped out of their thinning sheers, and it feels so satisfactory to me because that means less I have to deal with.

Once there done, and it's all over the floor, it feels good to see all of the hair gone. About 1/2 pound, it feels like, just taken away. I feel like a new person. So does everyone love getting their hair done as much as me or do they run an hide for fear the stylist isn't going to do it the way you want it?


Oh, PS- My stylist was from Seattle, and it made me think of the Gottula's and that I NEED to get my plain ticket to see them!

Moving....AGAIN!

It's official. We cannot stay in an apartment for more than 9 months....Hopefully that trend will end!

We have found a better and cheaper place to live. It is about a 5 minute walk from where we are now, and is still in the same ward(BIG plus). We love this ward, and we definately did not want to leave anytime soon. It is a basement(that's the only thing we can afford).

PROS:
Large bedroom, bathroom and kitchen
Small(very!) 2nd room which can be used for an office and/or a nursery
495 a month!!!
Internet, electricity, water, etc. all paid for
gorgeous yard

CONS:
No living room
Solution: Huge bedroom and kitchen, with room for dining. No biggie.
No washer/dryer
Solution: Laundry mat! Once a week, for about 1.5 hours and 5 bucks, it will all be done!
cable not included
Solution: Comcast Basic Limited. 10-15 bucks a month, just the basics

yep thats right, only 3 cons with 3 simple solutions. Even when we add the money for laundry and cable, we are still saving over 100 bucks a month. We are so blessed to have this in our lives. We will be initally painting the rooms there starting the day we get back from CO this May. Hopoefully all will be ready for us to move in around Mid-May. We shall be done with 939 Cedar Ave as of May, 31st(officially). Hopefully Sis Arnold can sell the place by then.

So, Life is exciting. and wonderful. and Happy. and great. and I love my wife. And I just wanted to say and again.